Vaginas are truly amazing, hiding many different pleasure spots inside. And yes, I mean more than the infamous G-spot which people still debate to this day.
There are up to seven different orgasms (according to some experts) for vagina owners. But today we're going to focus on one spot in particular: the C-spot, that is, the spot responsible for cervical orgasms.
WHAT IS A CERVICAL ORGASM?
Cervical orgasm, also known as C-spot orgasm, is an orgasm that vagina owners can experience by penetrating the cervix. Now, the penis usually does not go inside the cervix because it does not have a wide enough opening for a penis or even a finger.
Pleasure comes from stimulating or bumping into the cervical opening during deep penetrative sex, either with a partner with a penis or a sex toy.
Some vagina owners are able to stimulate the cervix using their fingers if they have long enough fingers or if their cervix is lower than average. It is important to note that the cervix changes position inside the vagina depending on the menstrual cycle - during your period it will be lower and more sensitive, while as you approach ovulation it will be higher and less sensitive.
Cervical orgasms have only recently made headlines because for a very long time, people didn't think they existed. This is to blame for the general lack of research and study conducted on female anatomy and sexual pleasure, even though sex researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson discovered the cervical response to pressure many decades ago.
However, Johnson and Masters missed the relationship between female orgasms and the cervix responding to pressure stimulation. There haven't been many studies on the C-spot, but it has been mentioned in a 1985 study , where researchers found that some women could achieve orgasm through cervical stimulation.
A cervical orgasm is also often described as an A-spot orgasm because the A-spot is very close to the cervix and requires deep penetration to be stimulated while providing intense full-body orgasms.
As with anything in sex, not all vagina owners will experience the pleasure of cervical penetration. Some may enjoy the stimulation, while others may find it painful. Whether or not you enjoy having your cervix penetrated, your preferences are normal and you shouldn't beat yourself up about them.
WHAT DOES A CERVICAL ORGASM LOOK LIKE?
Vagina owners who claim to have had cervical orgasms describe the sensation as a deep, full-body orgasm that starts at the cervix and travels throughout their entire body. One thing everyone agrees on is that the orgasms are so much more intense and fulfilling.
One woman on Reddit wrote : "I almost feel like I'm having a (very nice) seizure. My whole body convulses and that void that occurs during orgasm is sudden, intense and long-lasting.
However, there are vagina owners who claim that cervical stimulation comes with not only pleasure but some type of uncomfortable feeling afterwards. One Reddit user shares , "No orgasm, but it can make me want to puke afterwards, and honestly, it's a huge rush and a huge turn-on for me."
HOW IS IT DIFFERENT FROM OTHER TYPES OF ORGASMS?
It's hard to pinpoint the exact difference between orgasms because when you stimulate your cervix, chances are you're stimulating your G-spot as well as your A-spot and even your clitoris at the same time.
For this reason, the intense, full-body sensation that washes over your body during deep cervical orgasm may actually be a sensation of the blended orgasm you are experiencing, instead of the cervical orgasm alone.
HOW TO GET A CERVICAL ORGASM
Only 35% of women report having an orgasm from cervical stimulation. While cervical orgasm isn't for everyone, you can still explore and see if you're the one who enjoys the experience.
1. KEEP EXPLORING FOR YOURSELF
The best way to figure out what you like during sex with a partner is to first explore it with yourself – the same goes for cervical orgasm.
To stimulate your cervix, you need very deep penetration, so most people may not be able to reach it with just their fingers. This is where trusty sex toys come in handy. Pick your favorite sex toy, preferably a G-spot stimulator of considerable length, and get playing.
There are sleek G-spot vibrators designed specifically for deep penetration. during solo play. Make sure you really spend some time on foreplay with yourself before trying to approach your cervix, as it could be uncomfortable if you are not fully aroused.
Play with the erogenous zones that feel good on the outside, slowly move inside, play with your G-spot, then move deeper inside until you reach your cervix.
2. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER
When you're ready to experience deep penetrative sex with your partner, it's important to communicate your needs to them before you try anything.
You'll want to go slowly to make sure intercourse isn't painful or uncomfortable, and you'll also want to engage in a considerable amount of foreplay before even attempting deep penetration.
If you're unsure about penetration with your partner, you can even try bringing him in for some toy play - let him use the vibrator while you guide him and see what feels best.
Also, communicate and be verbal during this exploration with your partner. Give them instructions and feedback, tell them how you feel, what you want, and what doesn't feel good.
3. GIVE YOURSELF SOME FOREIGN PLAY
All sexual experiences are so much better when you are fully aroused and turned on. So, don't skip foreplay before cervical penetration, as it can make or break the whole experience.
The cervix is very sensitive, and for this reason many women, even those who have regular cervical orgasms, say they have to be very aroused for it to be pleasurable instead of painful.
Set the mood, allow plenty of time for foreplay before sex, and explore your partner and let them explore you before you engage in penetration. It might even be a good idea to start with any other type of orgasm, such as a clitoral orgasm, before moving on to deep penetration.
4. FIND THE RIGHT JOB
When you're aroused, the vagina tends to expand, so deep penetration may not be as easily achievable as it may seem at first glance. So you really want to make sure that you take advantage of different positions and experiment with what works for you.
Some of the most reliable positions for deep penetration are doggy style and cowgirl. (regular or reversed ). Being on top of your partner allows you to experience deeper penetration, and it also gives you the ability to control the angles and pace, so you can really explore and see what feels best for you.
If you are able to have sex furniture , then getting a sex pillow can also help, as this will allow for positions that will allow your partner to dive really deep while still providing comfort to you.
5. EXPERIMENT AT DIFFERENT TIMES OF YOUR CYCLE
As I mentioned before, the position of your cervix depends on your menstrual cycle and even affects its sensitivity. It might be a good idea to try deep penetration at different times of your cycle, so you can find the best time and what feels best for you.
Some women may feel that they hate having deep penetrative sex during their period because their cervix is lower and it hurts because it is more sensitive. If this is the first and only time you are trying deep penetration, then of course you might be disappointed.
Your cervix is also softer and wetter during ovulation, so it might be easier to feel pleasure during this time of the month. Experiment with different times of the month and different positions before deciding if cervical orgasms are right for you.
And if they aren't, don't worry. There are still plenty of other types of orgasms within reach that are just as mind-blowing and awesome.