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Oh hey, moms-to-be or friends and family of a mom-to-be! Today we’re going to talk about using a vibrator while pregnant… the ins and outs, is it safe, is it encouraged, or is it a big no-no?
Of course, we aim to give you sound advice that includes satisfying all carnal needs and making your pregnancy as comfortable as possible.
We'll also look at how a woman's body changes during pregnancy, including her arousal levels and hormonal changes. Welcome to the joys of preparing to bring a new human into the world!
PREGNANCY: THE FIRST TRIMESTER
During the first trimester, it is common for a woman to experience a loss of libido. This is because her body is undergoing a dramatic change, which often shifts the focus from the simple pleasures of life, i.e. sex and masturbation , to physical discomforts like morning sickness and emotional changes.
PREGNANCY: THE SECOND TRIMESTER
During the second trimester, pregnant women often experience a spike in their libido. This is partly because morning sickness is slowly fading for many and women are becoming more comfortable with their bodies, often sporting that “pregnancy glow.” There is also an increase in blood flow during the second trimester, which often makes a woman’s sex organs more sensitive and creates more pleasurable sexual experiences.
PREGNANCY: THE THIRD TRIMESTER
In the third trimester, a pregnant woman's libido often drops again. This is because their belly has grown, their breasts may be swollen and/or sore, and they may feel tired. Women in their third trimester may also have gained weight and are dealing with back pain, which can also decrease their sex drive.
It is important to note that no two pregnancies are the same and women may have different types of sexual desires, experiences and wants during different trimesters.
PREGNANCY AND SEX TOYS: CAN YOU USE A VIBRATOR DURING PREGNANCY?
As mentioned, women tend to experience increased genital blood flow during pregnancy. And what does that mean? Intense orgasms ! In fact, some even admit to having their best orgasms during pregnancy. However, others may find their genital area overly sensitive .
Regardless, orgasm during pregnancy has been shown to help reduce stress . And if sex does occur, an even stronger bond can form between partners. In other words: an orgasm a day can keep the doctor away ( with his permission !)
KEEP YOUR VIBRATOR CLEAN (DURING PREGNANCY)
If you've been given the green light by a professional to use sex toys during pregnancy, it's important to keep your vibrators squeaky clean during pregnancy (and all the time, really) by washing them after use.
If you use an uncleaned sex toy, there is a risk of spreading bacteria that can be harmful. Using clean sex toys also helps prevent vaginal infections. Click here for more information on how to keep your sex toys clean .
USE YOUR VIBRATOR GENTLY DURING PREGNANCY
Pregnant women should be careful and gentle enough with their vibrators. Try not to insert it too deeply and avoid vibrators with sharp edges. This is not because you might damage the placenta or the baby, but just a precaution to eliminate the possibility of discomfort.
Then there is also the possibility of feeling Braxton Hicks after an orgasm, which is basically mild cramping. These are not dangerous, but can cause pain, so be aware.
WHEN NOT TO USE A VIBRATOR DURING PREGNANCY
For women who face complications during pregnancy, such as placenta previa, multiple fetuses, urinary tract infections, cervical weakness, low placenta, vaginal bleeding and the possibility of having their child prematurely, it is advisable to abstain from using sex toys and having sex. However, to confirm these conditions and receive personalized advice, it is important to consult your doctor.
Additionally, you may want to be extra gentle with your vibrator during the first trimester, as this is the window in which miscarriage is at its most likely. This does not mean that using a vibrator while pregnant will directly lead to miscarriage. It just means being extra careful and making sure all toys are cleaned before use to risk any infections.
CAN AN ORGASM INITIATE LABOR?
Then there is also the age-old tale that says that sex, or rather - an orgasm - can trigger labor. This is actually true, as an orgasm causes the uterus to contract. On the other hand, it could also cause unexpected early labor, so the best advice is to do everything in moderation.
And while we're on the subject of orgasm, let us remind you of all the wonderful benefits of squirting.
THE BENEFITS OF HAVING AN ORGASM
Mentally and physically, there are many benefits to having an orgasm…
- It reduces stress by lowering levels of cortisol (the stress hormone)
- It gives you a warm, tingling feeling because of the hormone oxytocin that is released
- It helps you sleep more soundly
- It increases estrogen levels, which helps in achieving younger looking skin
- It gives your face a beautiful glow due to increased blood flow
- It temporarily relieves pain and increases your pain threshold
- It strengthens the pelvic floor , which could contribute to stronger orgasms in the future
- For men, it's good for your prostate health
- It allows you to get in touch with your body, making you feel more (sexually) confident
While most women and those with vulvas can safely use sex toys during pregnancy, it’s always advisable to consult your GP, midwife or OBGYN. They will determine the health of your pregnancy and will ultimately be the ones who can give you the green light when it comes to achieving pleasure!