Want to explore the pleasures of anal sex ? Whether you're a complete novice or already comfortable with backdoor sex , this selection of anal positions is for you. Each position has its advantages: comfort , control , depth ... and of course, shared pleasure . We'll guide you through gentle, safe , and consenting anal sex for two.
Why Choosing the Right Position Changes Everything in Anal Sex
Anal sex is an intimate experience that deserves to be lived with care . The choice of position directly influences relaxation , penetration , comfort ... and the intensity of pleasure ! Good positioning also limits the risks of discomfort or pain . Whether it's for a first time or to spice up your habits , here are our recommendations.
🐶 The Greyhound – Simple, instinctive, effective
This is THE iconic position for anal sex . The receiver is on all fours , while the other partner penetrates from behind. This position allows for deep penetration and a good angle, while still allowing for play with hands or a toy .
💡 Want more softness ? Try the lying-on-your-stomach or side-by-side version for better control .
🤠 The Reverse Cowgirl – Pleasure and control for the receiver
In this position, the receiver sits on top of their partner, with their back turned . They control the speed and depth of penetration , while having their hands free to explore their body (or the other person's). Ideal for a first time or a gradual build-up .
💡 Squat version = amplified sensations.
🦖 The Triceratops – To gently explore power play
An intermediate position, with a more pronounced dominance/submission relationship . The receiver stands , with their back to the other partner, leaning slightly forward , while the other partner penetrates them. Holding hands creates a strong connection while maintaining balance .
💬 Tip: Talk about your desires , your limits and your safe words before trying this more intense position.
🔥 The Piledriver – For the more experienced
This position is an explosion of sensations , reserved for those who are comfortable with anal sex . The receiver is on their back , legs raised towards the face , pelvis supported . The partner comes on top for a vertical , deep and intense penetration.
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Face to face ➤ complicity and stimulation
Back to back ➤ access to the gluteal area for more play
💕 For successful anal pleasure : gentleness , communication … and lubricant !
No matter your level, a good water-based lubricant is essential . Don't hesitate to take your time , talk openly about your feelings, and explore this intimate playground together . Anal sex for two is, above all, a question of trust and connection .